#33 Puppies versus Children

On January 1st, as a belated Xmas present, I got Leonni a pair of Pomeranian puppies. We only intended to get one, but I couldn’t bare to separate them all and not have a puppy pal for one of them.

I was warned about how much hard work it would be getting two new puppies, particularly with me being overseas on international duties about 60% of the time.

Little did I know that it wasn’t just hard work, but educational too.

I’ve realised that there are many comparisons between raising two young puppies and working with a group of young athletes. It has been so educational, that I thought that it would make a valuable read for you, acting as a reminder for your coaching and I’m sure you’ll resonate with many of these points:

They are incredibly excited, almost all the time, unless they’re tired. Then they just sleep.

They LOVE positive attention.

They LOVE to play.

They respond very well to praise.

They are very unique, with entirely different behaviours and personalities.

They are ridiculously competitive. My living room looks like a Toys R Us store, but they only care about the one toy that the other one has. That’s all. It’s all about winning.

Training them to do tricks requires daily, regular practice.

The more I ignore them, the more they do to try and gain my attention. Including trying to eat my feet. Yes, really.
99% of what I say they do not understand. They gain more from reading my non verbal communication than they do listening to the human gibberish coming out my mouth.

What they do understand has been learnt through repetitive, short bits of information, such as ‘sit!’, ‘good girl!’ and ‘paw!’ (Leonni tells me off when I say ‘sitting’ instead of ‘sit’ as it’s new language they won’t understand.)

They need me to behave in a consistent manner to avoid confusion, build trust and rapport.

‘The squeaky wheel gets the most oil.’ It’s important to give them equal love, not just those who cry out more for attention or are more fun to play with.

But amongst all the fun and games and super cuteness, there is the inevitable challenges faced with raising two pups.

Like eating the expensive sofa that has only just been paid off.

Crapping on the carpet. And the kitchen floor. And the sofa. Actually, just about anywhere.

Climbing on the table and eating my favourite leather Hugo Boss wallet.

Crying and howling in the mornings when we’re trying to get some sleep.

But this leads me to perhaps the most valuable insights and comparisons with our young athletes.

They don’t know any better.

Punishing them won’t change their behaviour. It will only suppress their behaviour.

I can shout with frustration all I like, it won’t change a thing.

It’s up to us to educate them.

I don’t want compliance through fear. I want it through understanding.

It’s not easy doing this all the right way, but it’s certainly worth it. It’s far easier to get it right in the first place, irrespective of how hard that is, than to try and change undesirable reinforced behaviours later.

The dogs they become in the future will be as a result of how they are treated now, when they are young. When they are impressionable.

I hope that was a useful read. Have I missed anything out? Let me know, join the conversation on my Facebook Page Here.

PS – In case you missed it, GymCon 2018 is being held June 24th at the St Johns Hotel in Solihull. We’ve already sold over 50% of tickets to coaches from 8 countries. To find out more information about GymCon and why you should attend, CLICK HERE.

PPS – We’re taking ’the girls’ to their first puppy party on Tuesday, to get them used to socialising with other pups. Follow me on Instagram (@nickruddock) if you want puppy updates on my Instagram story.

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Nick Ruddock
Nick Ruddock contributed to historic medal winning performances on the international stage throughout his four-year term with British Gymnastics as National Coach, representing Great Britain and Team GB on numerous occasions throughout his national coaching role, culminating with the 2014 Junior European Championships, where the British girls captured a historic six-medal haul including a record Team Silver ahead of European superpower Romania. Nick, a former personal coach to Amy Tinkler; European, World and Olympic Medallist, has been mentored by some of the world’s most experienced and accomplished coaches throughout several influential countries. Nick has lectured as a Technical Expert for the UEG (Union of European Gymnastics) for 7 years, and consults for over 15 international gymnastics federations and a variety of performance sports, with a mission of optimizing athlete and coach performance for the world stage. For more information on Nick’s services, including online courses, conferences, events and coaching programmes, visit www.nickruddock.com